Parenting a Teenager with Depression and Anxiety

At Adolescent Wellness Academy, we recognize that supporting a teenager grappling with depression or anxiety is one of the most profound challenges a parent can face. Teens are already dealing with immense social, academic, and developmental pressures, and mental health issues can intensify these struggles, making it even more difficult for them to cope. We understand that parents may feel overwhelmed, uncertain about how to assist, and deeply concerned about their child’s future.

Our approach emphasizes the importance of understanding how depression and anxiety impact adolescents. By helping parents recognize early signs and fostering healthy communication, we empower them to offer practical support. Additionally, we guide parents on when to seek professional help, reinforcing their crucial role in their teen’s journey toward healing. Together, we can create a supportive environment that promotes mental well-being and resilience.

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What Are the Signs of Depression and Anxiety in Teenagers?

Teenagers often experience mood swings, irritability, and emotional ups and downs. However, persistent signs of distress may indicate a deeper issue such as depression or anxiety. Knowing how to spot the difference is essential for early intervention.

Common signs of teenage depression include:

  • Persistent sadness or hopelessness
  • Withdrawal from friends or family
  • Loss of interest in activities they once enjoyed
  • Difficulty concentrating or completing schoolwork
  • Changes in sleep or eating patterns
  • Thoughts of self-harm or suicide

Common signs of teenage anxiety include:

  • Excessive worry or fear about everyday situations
  • Physical symptoms like headaches, stomachaches, or rapid heartbeat
  • Avoidance of school, social events, or responsibilities
  • Trouble sleeping or relaxing
  • Panic attacks or intense emotional outbursts

If these signs last for more than a few weeks and interfere with daily life, it is time to take them seriously.

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How Do Depression and Anxiety Affect Teen Development?

Depression and anxiety can interfere with nearly every aspect of a teenager’s development. Social isolation, poor academic performance, and difficulty regulating emotions are just a few of the many impacts.

Teens with untreated mental health conditions may struggle to build healthy friendships or develop a strong sense of self. Over time, this can lead to long-term issues such as low self-esteem, substance use, or chronic mental health disorders in adulthood.

Prompt and compassionate support is key to helping teens manage symptoms and thrive in the future.

How Can Parents Support a Teen with Depression or Anxiety?

Parenting a teenager with depression and anxiety requires patience, consistency, and a willingness to learn. Here are several ways parents can offer meaningful support.

Create a Safe and Supportive Home Environment

Teens need to feel emotionally safe to express how they are feeling. Avoid yelling, judgment, or dismissive comments. Instead, reassure your teen that it is okay to feel overwhelmed and that you are there to listen.

Validate Their Emotions

Even if you do not fully understand what your teen is going through, you can still acknowledge their feelings. Saying things like “That sounds really difficult” or “I’m proud of you for talking about this” can go a long way.

Encourage Healthy Habits Without Pressure

Routines that incorporate adequate sleep, balanced meals, regular physical activity, and limited screen time can promote better mental health. However, avoid turning these into battles. Instead, model these habits yourself and gently encourage participation.

Foster Open Communication

Check in regularly without making every conversation about their mental health. Ask about their day, interests, and friendships. Let them know you are there for them without pushing for details they may not be ready to share.

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What Not to Say to a Teen with Depression or Anxiety

Even with good intentions, some common phrases can do more harm than good. Avoid the following:

  • “Snap out of it.”
  • “You’re just being dramatic.”
  • “Other people have it worse.”
  • “It’s all in your head.”

These responses can make your teen feel invalidated or ashamed. Instead, practice active listening and offer support without judgment.

When Should Parents Seek Professional Help?

Knowing when to seek professional help can be overwhelming, but early intervention often leads to the most favorable outcomes.

You should consider reaching out to a mental health professional if:

  • Symptoms persist for more than a few weeks
  • Your teen’s functioning at home, school, or socially has changed.
  • You suspect your teen may be self-harming or experiencing suicidal thoughts.
  • Your teen has withdrawn completely and is refusing to communicate.

At Adolescent Wellness Academy, we offer comprehensive teen mental health programs that include access to pediatric psychiatry, individual therapy, group support, and family involvement. Our Miami-based programs are tailored to each teen’s unique challenges and include parents every step of the way.

What Is the Role of Family in Teen Mental Health Treatment?

Family involvement is one of the most powerful tools in a teen’s recovery process. When parents and caregivers participate in therapy, learn coping strategies, and build communication skills, it reinforces the progress made during treatment.

At AWA, our programs are designed to educate and empower parents while helping teens heal. Family therapy sessions, parenting support, and collaborative care planning are integral to our approach to helping restore connection and trust between parents and their teens.

Why Self-Care for Parents Is Just as Important

It is not selfish for parents to prioritize their own mental well-being while supporting their teen. In fact, it is necessary.

Caring for a teenager with depression or anxiety can take a toll on your physical and emotional health. You may experience stress, guilt, or burnout. Taking care of yourself is an essential part of being able to care for your child.

Consider the following:

  • Seek support from a counselor or therapist for yourself
  • Join a parent support group.
  • Take breaks when needed to recharge.
  • Practice mindfulness, exercise, and healthy habits

By modeling healthy coping strategies, you also teach your teen how to manage stress and care for their own mental health.

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Get Started With AWA: You Are Not Alone in This

Parenting a teenager with depression and anxiety is never easy, but you do not have to navigate it alone. With the proper support, guidance, and treatment, healing is possible.

At Adolescent Wellness Academy, we provide a safe and structured environment for teens to overcome depression, anxiety, and other mental health challenges. Our programs are built with families in mind, ensuring that parents receive the tools and support they need alongside their children.

If you are concerned about your teen’s mental health, contact our team today.

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Tatiana Shiber - Therapist (Davie)

Tatiana Lourenco Shiber, MS, RMHCI is a Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern with a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Nova Southeastern University. She has extensive experience working with adolescents navigating intellectual disabilities, trauma, self-harm, family conflict, depression, and anxiety. Tatiana has also worked with diverse populations providing culturally responsive and affirming care.
 
Tatiana’s therapeutic approach is strength-based and incorporates evidence-based modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Trauma-Focused CBT (TF-CBT) and Narrative therapy. Tatiana is passionate about creating a safe and supportive environment where clients feel empowered to build resilience, develop healthy coping skills, and foster meaningful change. She is dedicated to walking alongside her clients in their healing journey with compassion, authenticity, and respect.

Tiffany Rivera - Therapist (Davie)

Tiffany Rivera holds a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Walden University and a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Florida Atlantic University.

With a passion for empowering young people, Tiffany specializes in client-centered approaches that foster trust, growth, and resilience. She brings a strong background in mentoring youth and supporting individuals struggling with substance use, always meeting clients with empathy, patience, and genuine care.

Tiffany is known for her compassionate nature, strong communication skills, and unwavering commitment to helping adolescents navigate life’s challenges.

Ornella Barille - Therapist (Davie)

Ornella is a Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern and holds a Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Nova Southeastern University. She is bilingual in English and Spanish and has extensive experience working with diverse populations, including children, families, and young adults. Ornella has worked in both K-12 schools and at the college level, where she has developed a strong commitment to helping adolescents thrive by supporting their personal and academic growth and empowering them to reach their full potential.

Her therapeutic approach centers on creating a safe and welcoming environment where clients can feel comfortable exploring their needs and expressing themselves authentically. Ornella utilizes a blend of mindfulness, existential therapy, and cognitive-behavioral techniques to empower clients in navigating life’s challenges.

Ornella’s compassionate approach fosters self-awareness and encourages clients to build effective coping strategies to achieve their therapeutic goals.

Jamie Namer - Therapist (Davie)

Jamie specializes in Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) guiding individuals and families toward healthier, more fulfilling lives. With a focus on positivity, self-growth, and holistic healing, Jamie integrates spiritual perspectives and deep empathy into the therapeutic process. Using solution-based methods and emotionally focused therapy, Jamie helps clients navigate past trauma, enhance self-discovery, and strengthen relationships.

Jamie’s approach combines therapeutic techniques with mind-body healing practices such as meditation, mindfulness, and visualization. Experienced in working with children, adolescents, adults, families, and groups, Jamie specializes in addressing issues like anxiety, grief, self-confidence, burnout, family dynamics, depression, PTSD, and life transitions. The goal is to promote overall well-being and support clients in living a balanced, healthy lifestyle.

Dr. Maria Angelica Mejia – Clinical Director (Davie)

Dr. Maria Angelica Mejia’s therapeutic approach is rooted in empathy, resilience-building, and collaboration. As the Clinical Director for Adolescent Wellness Academy, she is dedicated to supporting high-risk teens in navigating trauma, emotional distress, and life’s challenges with a holistic and trauma-informed lens. Dr. Mejia specializes in working with adolescents facing issues such as suicide risk, self-harm, anxiety, depression, and family conflict, utilizing techniques like CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and strength-based therapy. With extensive experience in community mental health, private practice, and clinical supervision, Dr. Mejia has a proven track record of empowering teens to overcome obstacles and thrive. She holds a PhD in Marriage and Family Therapy bringing a depth of knowledge and compassion to her leadership role.

Kimberly Geller

Kimberly Geller - Primary Therapist (Davie)

Kimberly is a compassionate and dedicated therapist with a Master’s degree in Social Work from Florida International University. Kimberly creates a nurturing and secure environment where clients can freely explore their emotions and embark on their journey toward healing and growth. Kimberly specializes in client-centered approaches that helps tailor her therapeutic methods to meet unique needs and goals. By fostering a collaborative therapeutic relationship, she empowers clients to develop effective coping skills and achieve meaningful progress in their mental health journey. Kimberly ensures that each person she works with feels understood and valued throughout their therapeutic process.

Zainub Fatta - Therapist (Davie)

Zainub holds a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Nova Southeastern University and has extensive experience treating a wide range of mental health issues in adults, teens, and children. She specializes in treating diverse mental health struggles such as anxiety, depression, trauma, bipolar disorder, social anxiety, anger management, etc. She also has a lot of experience treating addiction and substance abuse problems within various treatment centers. Zainub views mental health from a systemic perspective, emphasizing the significance of how one’s environment and childhood impacts them, which is why she also specializes in family therapy and couples therapy, when it comes to achieving holistic well-being. Passionate about empowering individuals to find their voice, she considers it a privilege to listen to their vulnerable stories and provide the support they need. Her therapeutic approach focuses on uplifting clients by building their confidence and challenging them to break old, negative patterns of thinking and behavior.

Krystine Garay

Krystine Garay – Licensed Mental Health Counselor

Krystine Garay is a licensed mental health counselor, marriage family therapist, and certified telehealth practitioner. Raised in Miami, Florida, and a member of the Hispanic community, she provides services in both English and Spanish. With five years of experience, she has worked with children, adolescents, and adults, focusing on domestic violence, substance abuse, family conflicts, co-occurring disorders, and mental health issues.
Krystine holds a bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Florida International University and a master’s degree with dual specializations in mental health and marriage and family counseling from Barry University. She is pursuing a doctorate in clinical psychology with a concentration in health psychology from Carlos Albizu University.
Her clinical experience includes rotations at Nicklaus Children’s Hospital, where she assisted children with co-occurring disorders using mindfulness exercises, cognitive-behavioral strategies, and dialectical-behavioral techniques.
Krystine believes in the power of personal growth and progress, and she is dedicated to fostering positive change in her clients’ lives.

Alyssa Mencucci – Therapist (Miami)

Alyssa is a dedicated master’s level clinician specializing in providing compassionate
therapy for adolescents and children facing severe mental health challenges. With a
deep understanding of the developmental stages and psychological needs of
adolescents and children, Alyssa offers expertise in addressing trauma-related issues,
guiding individuals through the complexities of grief, managing anxiety and depression,
navigating personality disorders, and supporting those dealing with PTSD. Alyssa uses
evidence-based techniques such as cognitive-behavioral therapy, DBT, play therapy,
and trauma-focused interventions to create a safe and nurturing environment for
healing. Alyssa believes in a client-centered approach, tailoring therapy to meet the
unique needs and circumstances of each individual. She creates a safe and nurturing
environment where adolescents and children can explore their emotions, develop
coping skills, and embark on a journey of healing and growth.

Dr. Jacqueline Pablos – Clinical Director

Vulnerability and connection are at the heart of Dr. Pablos’ therapeutic approach. As the
Clinical Director for Adolescent Wellness Academy, she aims to create a safe space for
clients to embrace their emotions and express their needs in healthier ways. Dr. Pablos
specializes in treating depression, anxiety, body image issues, bullying, eating
disorders, and self-harm behaviors using techniques like CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and
ACT.
With extensive training in hospitals and counseling centers, Dr. Pablos has a strong
background in helping teens and adults with co-occurring mental and physical health
disorders. She holds a Doctoral Degree in Clinical Psychology, with specialized training
at institutions like Florida International University, Jackson Memorial Hospital,
Clementine Monte Nido, and Nicklaus Children’s Hospital.

Kimberly

Kimberly Carlesi – Therapist (Miami)

Kimberly, a dedicated therapist with a Master’s Degree in Clinical Mental Health
Counseling from Florida International University, specializes in supporting individuals
with eating disorders, trauma, and substance abuse. She creates a safe, nurturing
environment for her clients’ healing journeys, drawing from diverse therapeutic
modalities like cognitive-behavioral therapy and dialectical behavior therapy. With a
focus on trust and collaboration, Kimberly empowers clients through personalized
interventions, fostering self-awareness and resilience.